I'm lucky, I guess, that I live in the UK. I'm lucky for a lot of reasons really, but the one I want to discuss here is the prevalence of professional spankees.
Try this if you have a minute; do a Google search for "professional spankee US". Very little of any use comes up, does it?
How about this then. Click on this link to Spankeefinder; check the section for US spankees. Or don't. I'll save you the trouble. There are 9 listed. I know of 3 more, who are also profesional models; Pixie and Lily Anna (who only work together) and Sarah Gregory.
Just running an eye down the UK list, which is large enough to require segregation by area, and I count 110.
Now, this is, at present, a kind of theoretical luck, as I've never visited one of these ladies, although I am currently arranging to do so (and there will be a new post about My Great Adventure later this week). Just knowing that they are available is sufficient reason for joy.
Spankeefinder is a wonderful resource, providing each spankee with their own page in order to entice the willing spanker into contacting her. All of the entries are for female spankees (sorry if you're into male spankers, but I suspect most who are don't need to pay for it).
It's also an entertaining place to browse; clicking on the links provided and reading the details of each lady, whilst glancing at her pictures (oh yes, most have pictures, even if faces do not always appear). I've spent many a happy hour mired in the fantasy that I would arrange to see some of these women.
What's great about them is that they fulfil a need, and provide a safe outlet for a kink that, to those outside the scene, is dangerous and creepy.
Many would be spankers are married, and their wives are not receptive to the idea of being spanked. Some spankers cannot bring themselves to explain their needs to their other halves. Some wives put up with being spanked, but don't enjoy it, or won't accept anything beyond the most gentle of smackings.
For a (relatively) small fee the frustrated spanker can meet a lady who is not only willing, but quite often eager, to be spanked; she is experienced and spanked frequently, so she has a tolerance above that of (ahem) amateur spankees. Most have a variety of outfits to be spanked in, and throw themselves wholeheartedly into role plays.
They are gentle and helpful for the newbie, guiding the uninitiated into whole new realms of spanking pleasure.
They provide spanking without strings; as most who have spanked will agree a spanking is, of itself, entirely satisfying, without any supporting sexual activity. Professional spankees do not provide any sexual services, and this step away from an intimate connection between sex and spanking can be a relief of itself.
For those customers with a little more desire to experiment, many professional spankees also switch, and will spank on request. I find that more and more men nowadays are keen to give the other side a try, and there is certainly an argument to be made that, having experienced the process from the bottom (as it were) they will be better and more sympathetic as tops.
One last thing; visiting a professional spankee can also give you a chance to meet one of your heroes. Many of these ladies are regulars in spanking videos, and I would suppose that most men who visit a spankee will have watched their share of spanking porn.
Of the ladies listed on Spankeefinder I have seen the following in videos (this is not exhaustive, as, contrary to some opinions, I have not seen every video ever made. Not quite.):-
Leia-Ann Woods (well, of course I start with Leia)
Amy Hunter (finishing on a real high)
If you are a more gregarious spanker you could also consider a spanking party, of which several are listed on Spankeefinder, including the splendid sounding Bottoms Up (run by our own Leia-Ann); there you would be able to spank several girls for a very reasonable fee, as well as meeting a number of individuals with....well, similar interests.
Any views of who you'd like to spank? The comments box, alone and forlorn, awaits below. Please give generously; only you can change the life of a comments box for the better.
All the best
Oh yes, the pictures. All of these have been snatched off spankeefinder, to give you an idea of what you can expect. Go on, check it out. Be brave, and maybe contact one of the girls near you.
PS if any of the ladies pictured would like me to remove their picture please let me know and I'll so so.