If you are a regular reader of this blog (and if you aren't, well, why not pray tell? It's no good sneaking in there at the back of the class and hoping I won't notice you - Tim sees all!) you'll know of my admiration for the delightful Dani Hunt.
Furthermore you'll likely recall that I very recently enjoyed a spanking session with her, and my report it here for all to read.
To enhance the experience I now present an interview with Ms Hunt; she is quite forthright and holds strong opinions on most subjects. I've added my own comments in a couple of places because, well, you know me - gobby sod who can't keep his thoughts to himself. Ah well.
Anyway, enough of me (no, I know that isn't really possible, but hey, let's pretend shall we?) and over to the questions. And the joys of variable font sizes!
1.
I know that you weren't spanked as a child. How did you come to gain
an interest in spanking?
I was always a
bit intrigued by spanking.
When I was at
school {I went to a Girls School….I was good, the rest of the class
weren’t} I would always think that if we were taken back in time to
the days when corporal punishment was legal, the whole class would
have to take six of the best! I would sometimes daydream at how I
thought the “naughty girls” would cry and scream when they
received their dose.
Going on from
that, some of the naughtier girls seem to be a bit over-experienced
with getting detentions, or suspended, therefore it was very
ineffective from stopping them fighting {I have seen many earrings
ripped from ears}, smoking, shoplifting at lunch time or giving the
“likely lads” oral sex through the gaps in the school gates……..
I used to see
some of my teachers get so very exasperated and red-faced when
dealing with some of these girls. I used to wonder how the teachers
kept so restrained. I often wondered if the teachers wanted to revert
back to the days of spanking and caning.
Tim: ah, so many school girl fantasies. Might be some ideas here for next time we meet!
2.
Which came first; sessions or videos?
I first got
into spanking by doing spanking videos. The first time I was spanked
was October 2010. It came about because I saw an advertisement placed
by Sarah Bright {of www.spankingsarah.comand www.englishspankers.com} looking for
girls who would like to be spanked on video.
I was very
naïve at the time, as I thought that spanking was done only by
parents to naughty children. I didn’t realise that adults indulged
in this. I had not had any friends or boyfriends who had wanted to
try. So I got in touch with Sarah and we set a date, the shoot took
place in Grantham, Lincolnshire.
The video
which was made – which produced real tears and a bottom so sore
that I couldn’t lie on my back for two days – was named The
Thieving Maid.
The spanking
sessions came a little later. It is funny thinking back to the days
when I started, as I was confused by the names of all the implements.
I couldn’t tell my straps from my whips!
3. Do you get spanked in your personal life?
I am a spinster with three cats. I lack the social skills that would allow me to get {or keep} a boyfriend… I blame this on my very wicked sense of humour and sense of entitlement.
Because of this I do not get spanked in my personal life.
I frequently get asked if I would seek out a boyfriend who would spank me, or split from one that wouldn’t. I have thought about this, I don’t think so. I say this because I wouldn’t get in a relationship with a boyfriend that was going to boss me around, so if said boyfriend said I must stop doing spanking session… he would be shown the door. Don’t let the door hit you where the good Lord split you…you idiot!
On the flip side, I MAY find someone who isn’t comfortable spanking me, in which case the spanking sessions and spanking videos that I will continue doing may be my only salvation.
Tim: I find it hard to believe that you lack any social skills; I thought that you were excellent at relaxing me when first we met. and I was a little stressed.
4.
Given that most spankers are middle-aged white guys do you find that
they react differently to you as a young black girl? Do some guys
specifically seek you out because of your colour, do you think?
That’s an
interesting question. I have met a few people who have said they have
never spanked a black or mixed race {my Mother’s family is White
Jewish, whilst my absent-father’s family are from a British owned
colony in the Caribbean called Montserrat} woman, and that they
wanted to see for themselves if black/brown bottoms turned red. Some
people have became a bit flummoxed when their best attempts to spank
or cane me do not produce the normal red lines that would appear on
white girls.
I am not sure
if I would go as far as saying that these men react differently to
me. That is something I will give some more thought to over the next
few months.
Currently
there are 2-3 black/mixed race spankees in the UK that meet for
professional spanking sessions, so I am not sure that I would state
that the market for black/mixed race spankees is underserved. That
said, I don’t know of any Chinese / Indian spankees, so that would
be interesting to see.
5. I did an interview with Pandora a while ago, and, as she had expressed an interest in shooting with you, I asked to what she attributed the lack of ethnically diverse spankees. She felt that the question should be better addressed to a black model, so, guess what? What do you think?
This is a topic that frequently comes up. A friend of mine suggested that as so few non-Caucasian men aren’t into spanking – or fetish things in general – they are therefore not going to try this with their girlfriends. As mentioned earlier, I have only met 3 non-Caucasian men who were into spanking, which is a drop in the ocean compared to the amount of Caucasian men. My friend then went onto explain that they thought these sorts of things are generally initiated by the males, rather than the females. I think I would agree to this.
6.
I know that you have your degree now, and you talked about finding a
graduate level job. Do you think that the professional spanking side
of your life may be coming to an end?
I don’t
think it is coming to an end. I say this because I enjoy spanking,
and have become very good friends with some of the people I have met
through spanking. Because of this, I would most likely do it around
my job. Evenings and weekends maybe?
That said, who
is to assume I am going to be able to get a job? I hear a lot of
graduates are having trouble securing graduate-level positions, and
that some had to search for as long as two years before securing such
a position.
I do have a
back up plan though. All this newfound intelligence that I gained
whilst studying Economics and Finance means that I will dedicate a
certain amount of each day to perfecting a multi-million pound VAT
scam that I have in mind. After I do this, I will live out the rest
of my days in a country which lacks an extradition treaty with the
UK, sipping cocktails and listening to the likes of Bobby Derin.
Tim: Well, either somewhere sunny or the inside of a dank jail cell anyway!
7.
I loved the way you incorporated my wish to see bottom rubbing into
our session and the way you adopted my phone call into our role play.
Do you have any dramatic aspirations? Or perhaps literary ones?
Oh gosh no. Though my Mother does
know that I do spanking, she would drop down dead if I said I wanted
to be an actress. Not to discredit actors, or writers, I am an avid
reader and I adore the theatre. However coming from a Jewish family,
the catchphrase “banker or baker” was repeated numerous times
during my formative years. The majority of my family are accountants
or work in some finance discipline… though some members of my
extended family became engineers.
If money was no object, I would
become a pilot. I absolutely adore flying! In my mind, nothing can
top the thrill of taxiing an A-380 or Boeing Dreamliner down an
runway and then TAKING OFF!
“This is Captain Hunt speaking…
we are all going to DIE”
8.
You were spanked by Dallas. Was it the hardest spanking you've taken?
In all honesty, I wouldn’t say
that Dallas is the hardest spanker I have come across. Personally, I
would say the Amsterdam Authoritarian – Dutch Mike – of
www.real-life-spankings.com
and www.spanked-in-uniform.com
is a harder hand spanker.
I feel really lucky that I have
become friends with a lot of the people I have shot with. People I
am particularly fond of are Sarah Bright, Dutch Mike {both mentioned
previously}, Eve Howard of www.shadowlane.com
and Jacqueline Omerta of www.pacificforce.com.
When doing spanking {videos or
one-to-ones} there is a lot of trust involved, even more so when
working in a foreign country. Every spanking company has treated me
very well, and as an equal – with the exception of Dallas of
www.dallasspankshard.com. I found some of the comments he made to be
very rude and vindictive, spiteful almost. I was warned about that
both in the UK and in the US before I met him. I think he was
exceptionally proud of himself when he broke my skin and made me
bleed, especially as that almost ruined the videos I had planned to
make with other companies on that trip.
Tim: I found Dallas to be a little difficult when I talked to him about reviewing his site. It seemed like it was important to him to establish his superiority. Mike however seemed like a lovely bloke, who you might cheerfully go out for a beer with (you can see where my priorities lie!) and I think that, outside of Northern Spanking, his sites are my favourite video ones.
9.
I know you have some videos available on Clips4you. Have you
considered moving into the production side?
I have never
really thought about that. I have no experience of working in that
field, except for holding the camera a couple of times when being
short of a cameraman.
I wouldn’t
rule out such a move, as it is fantastic to see a good spanking film
and know that you played a part in the making of that. The problem
with movies today, as with most forms of media, is piracy. I think it
is unjust that spanking producers are earning less profits year on
year – not as a result of falling levels of demand – but instead
because illegal download websites are allowed to continue operating.
It won’t be
too long before spanking films will be a thing of the past, simply
because all the producers {and potential producers} won’t be able
to continue in their operations.
Tim: my God, I hope you're wrong about this! I get masses of fun from spanking videos. I understand the difficulties piracy causes to video site owners though from talking to John at Triple A Spanking and the lovely Miss Shanelle, who only does Clips for Sale now due to the problems she experienced.
10.
Talking to you, and having watched many of your videos over the last
couple of years, it seems like you know everyone involved in
professional spanking in the Western world. You must have a huge
network of contacts?
I wouldn’t
agree with that assertion, though I do know quite a few people. There
are websites that I haven’t shot for – Bars and Stripes,
Northern Spanking, Punished Brats, to name just a few.
It’s ironic
that being so close to mainland Europe, spanking hasn’t developed
into being a more established “scene” {I hate that word in this
context}, similar to that of the spanking scene in England. I have
gone to various places in Europe to meet people for 1-1 sessions,
which is always fun as I get to see a new bit of the world. I have
heard from various people that Canada and Australia have next to no
spanking at all, which I have always struggled to understand given
that it is part of the Commonwealth…. and spanking is profound in
America.
Tim: I thought that you had been on Punished Brats although I must have imagined it. As mentioned above, I'm a huge fan of Northern Spanking and I'd love to see you on there.
11. Is there anyone that you want to shoot with that you haven't yet?
Having met Lucy of Northern Spanking a couple of times at events, she has struck me as a very interesting woman, who WILL make sure your bottom is red. I would like to shoot with her.
12.
What frustrates you most about the spanking "scene"? Apart
from the phrase, that is.
Hmmm. Now that
has got me thinking. There are a few things that I don’t like about
the spanking scene. I think my biggest gripe is that is such a divide
- and stigma - coming from the “lifestylers” {people who do
spanking in their private life} towards those who do it
professionally.
As has been a
recent point of discussion on the ITC messageboards, there are some
people who indulge in spanking who think that it should not be mixed
with any kind of sexual activity, and that those that do –
particularly women who offer both services – are nothing more than
dirty whores who are going to burn in HELLFIRE!!!!
I think this
is a very juvenile discussion. Who is anyone to judge a man who wants
more than just spanking, or the woman that is happy to do such? In
the eyes of most “vanilla” people, we are all seen as strange;
many vanilla people would put a female who gets paid for spanking in
the same pigeon hole as women that get paid for sex.
It seems that
despite evolving for 2000 years, on the topic of women getting paid
for sex, some people will not accept that it is a woman’s choice to
do this. What I thought was very evident in these discussions is that
few seem to understand that supply of these services stems out of
demand. No demand = no supply.
13.
Perhaps I've been lucky but it's seems to me that most spankos I've
interacted with have been particularly pleasant and bright (I'm
excluding some of those posting on ITC from that). What do you think?
As mentioned earlier in your
questions, yes there is a general “type” of person that does
spanking. Typically the males are white {I have only ever met 3
people of the non-Caucasian persuasion}, if they aren’t self
employed they are of a medium-high level of power in their
professions.
As for the women who do spanking, it
is a mixed bag. You have me, who is so strange and deluded that in my
spare time I dream of shooting Nick Clegg, taking power and forming
my own right wing government in a coup d’etat…. I know many
people roll their eyes at this!
Similarly you have women of very
high intelligence who have excelled academically, some of whom have
jobs outside of spanking. You also have women who are content to be
home makers and do spanking on the side. And finally, you have some
women that live on council estates who marry convicted criminals
whilst they are serving a long stretch in jail….. a real mixed bag.
14.
After all of your spanking experiences does the sound of someone
saying "spank" still give you a thrill?
I have always
found spanking to be a nice little break from reality. It is nice to
“lose yourself” in role play and relinquish control. I enjoy
meeting new people, and people I have met before. It is always nice
to see the little things that set people apart.
Tim: That's interesting. I find being spanked takes me out of myself entirely, freeing me somehow, but spanking just makes me focus. On a bottom usually.
15.
You started out at a spankee, and still identify yourself in that way
on your Spankeefinder ad; do you find topping difficult? In what way
is the experience different for you?
I enjoy topping.
I would say that I am about 60-40. 60% prefers being spanked, because
I’m a bit selfish…. Topping is good because you get to get a bit
of your own back and inflict a bit of psychological torture. Just a
little bit…I’m not Kim Jong Un. Please don’t be frightened of
me.
Tim: Dani is one of the most frightening people I have ever met. No, not really. You shouldn't be frightened of her, unless you happen to be over her knee. Whew, hard hand or what!
16.
On the same subject, have you made any F/M videos? I got the idea
that you had from the list of companies that you had worked with. Did
you enjoy the experience?
I have done some Female on Male
spanking videos. I did my first videos of this kind with
www.vixen-ladies.com
{sister site of www.spanked-cheeks.com}
on a male who had a VERY VERY tough bottom. A female dominatrix named
Mistress Lina was in the videos with me also, and she wasn’t giving
him any mercy.
When in
America I got to give Vinnie of www.pacificforce.com
a good walloping. I have also appeared on www.strictwomen.com
17.
Is spanking becoming more mainstream, and, if so, is this because it
is increasingly sexualised?
I think
spanking is becoming more mainstream. It is appearing in a lot of
films lately – for instance Keira
Knightley was
spanked in A Dangerous Method. Similarly,
Miley Cyrus is getting a lot of press for spanking some of her
backing dancers on stage.
I think all of this is party of The
50 Shades of Grey effect. Every ten years of so there is a
“scandalous” book such as this, which opens the eyes to many
women to subjects such as these. I think this is part of why Ann
Summers is reporting an increase in the sale of many fetish related
products.
Tim: I always feel just a little as though our world has been invaded when the vanilla public get excited by fetish after something like 50 Shades comes out. It's not a rational perspective, because more mainstream acceptance is likely to lead to more mainstream spanking material, but still...
18.
The degree to which spanking is considered a sexual act seems
extremely vexed. Where do you stand on this?
I would say it
is sexual. If someone is getting some kind of sexual gratification
from spanking {I do hope my delicious bottom satisfies the men who
spank it!} then it is sexual. I think that if someone told me they
just wanted a bottom to spank for the sake of inflicting pain, I
would just tell them to take it out on a punchbag.
Tim: Your bottom is delightful, and very satisfying to spank. I look forward to my opportunity to do so.
19.
Do your vanilla family and friends know about your interest in
spanking?
My family is
very small. My Mom knows, my 3 cats definitely know. Fortunately I
have a lot of friends who I have met because of spanking… some
friends I had before this couldn’t really accept what I do, citing
they were worried with my safety and the morality of it all etc etc.
20.
And to finish, a non spanking question. What was the book in your
bag, and who are your favourite authors?
The book in my bag was a present
from a friend of mine. The book is Guilty Wives by James Patterson.
I really like a lot of authors. I
like a lot of genres; however I am not so keen on sci-fi or
historical
fiction. When a book’s tone is “I was walking down the
street, and then I developed wings and flew away”… I put the book
down at that point.
I particularly like Danielle Steel,
who has been consistently good over the years. James Patterson.
Martina Cole, John Grisham, Sydney Sheldon. I also read a lot of true
crime, Ann Rule is a very distinguished true crime author as she is a
former police officer and worked alongside Ted Bundy {before he
started his killing rampage}.
Tim: And back to me once again. Many thanks to Dani for her full and thoughtful answers, and for getting back to me so quickly too. She really is a lovely approachable girl and I would heartily recommend that anyone who can do arrange a session with her.
Once again I've borrowed some photos from Dani's site as a pleasant diversion from my endless waffling.
All the best
Tim
Excellent interview Tim really good read.
ReplyDeleteGlad you enjoyed it; I think it really gives a sense of what she is like. She really is a pleasure to spank!
DeleteAll the best
Tim
Great interview and a great site. Hope to see more of your journalistic side. There are some interesting people in the spanking world.
ReplyDeleteThank you for your kind words; I loved doing this interview, and I'm hoping to set up a few more in the not too distant future.
DeleteAll the best
Tim
Dani is a nice little spankee girl .
ReplyDeleteI've met Danielle and would completely endorse your comments. She is a lovely girl and very bright. A great spankee but I also love talking to Danielle. She has an interesting and quirky view on life and is also very funny.
ReplyDeleteDani is a very entertaining conversationalist, and always keen to talk; I think we were both a little taken aback at exactly how far apart our political beliefs are, but it didn't stop us having a lovely time.
DeleteAll the best
Tim
Politics borin spankin chat much better ,yes sure teachers would like to spank some brats .
ReplyDeletehe'd asked if future do not think a video on bun beating fun.com
ReplyDeleteHere is what I gained from Dani Hunt and her shoot with us. I gave her a hard call time ( prep involved) she called 2 hours early, which caused us to lose prep time ,as I had to go and pick her up. Then she asked me to stop by a cell phone store which ate up another hour of the day.
ReplyDeleteDani was the one who kept writing to us talking about her astronomical tolerance. Anyone who has seen the video will know she said throughout the shoot that is 'wasn't bad at all'. The "weeping' she was referring the was the state of her 'pad' ( caning spank spot she had developed) that was already thin walled from cane use. This is called 'weeping'. I saw that her pad was going to be an issue and used massive amounts of vitamin e oil ,because the said pad was getting dry and cracking at the beginning.
I would love to know what 'comments' she was referring to. I do know I called her out about the call time and the stopping by the cell phone store for an hour. Anyone who has seen my films know I bring realism to the shoots and will often use real events in the story. Regardless, we wish Dani the best!
I thought it was an interesting interview on an array of varied questions. Every question was answered fully with Dani's personal slant, and not what was expected. I couldn't imagine anyone wanting to spank her delightful bottom to just inflict pain, but to enjoy the sexual aspect.
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